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×´Through Focusing we can unlock doors and move into dimensions that cannot be entered through the intellect alone.×´

- Eugene Gendlin

The Essence of Focusing

What is Focusing?

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Focusing is a learnable process of inner awareness that helps you tune into the body’s reactions to life. It’s subtle, intuitive, and surprisingly familiar.

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You’ve probably felt it before—the unease in your stomach when something’s off, or the warmth in your chest during a beautiful moment. These body signals carry meaning. In Focusing, we learn to listen to them.

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Rather than analyzing or trying to fix our emotions, we relate to them gently. They have messages. We’re simply making space to hear them.

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​Understanding The Felt Sense

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A felt sense is a body sensation that carries emotional weight.

It’s more than a fleeting feeling—it’s vague, whole-bodied, and meaningful.
Like the stomach tension as you wait to speak in a crowded room.

Or the warm expansion in your chest when you see a rainbow after rain.

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Focusing teaches us how to stay with these sensations without rushing to interpret. The body knows the way—if we let it speak.

 

How the Focusing Process Works

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Focusing is different from how we usually handle emotions.
Instead of being swept away or pushed aside, emotions are met with interested curiosity.

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You learn to:

  • Slow down.

  • Notice what’s there.

  • Stay present without judgment.

  • Listen for the meaning beneath the surface.

 

This creates space for gentle transformation—one small step at a time.

 

Where Focusing Shows Up

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Focusing can infuse your life, quietly and powerfully.

 

It supports:

  • Emotional resilience

  • Intuitive decision-making

  • Creative processes

  • Relationship clarity

  • Spiritual deepening

 

You might find yourself using it in daily rituals: walking, writing, working, resting.
It’s not a technique you perform—it’s a way you relate.

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A Different Kind of Intelligence

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Our culture often celebrates cognitive smarts.
Focusing reconnects us to a quieter wisdom—body-based intelligence.

 

This kind of knowing is trustworthy, rooted, and deeply attuned.
It draws attention where it’s needed most.
And it helps you live from the inside out.

 

References:

  • Gendlin, Eugene T. Focusing, Everest House, 1978

  • Leijssen, Mia. Manuscript MOOC Existential Wellbeing Counseling, KU Leuven, 2016

  • Ann Weiser Cornell. The Power of Focusing, New Harbinger, 1996

  • The International Focusing Institute — focusing.org​​

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For any questions you have, or to schedule a gratis 1-hour "Virtual Coffee Chat", you can contact me here:

Simone Grimmer

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